DepthNotes

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Psychiatry, Story, and Soulwork

What Is the Everyday Gaze?

Explore a gentler way of seeing, through the lens of nervous system safety, not self-improvement. No pressure to perform, no need to document. Just simple, mindful noticing. ...more

Adult Mental Health ,Child and Adolescents Mental Health

January 21, 20264 min read

What Is the Everyday Gaze?

Seeing Yourself, Softly

This is a quiet, reflective guide—nothing to fix, nothing to solve. Just simple prompts to help you notice how you think, feel, and move through the world. You can use it with a journal, a cup of coff... ...more

Adult Mental Health

January 12, 20262 min read

Seeing Yourself, Softly

Your Nervous System Isn’t Broken. It’s Communicating

We live in a culture that rewards composure. So you learn to perform stability while your nervous system stays on high alert. You meet expectations. You carry the load. You keep moving. And your bod... ...more

Adult Mental Health

January 06, 20263 min read

Your Nervous System Isn’t Broken. It’s Communicating

Self-Concept, Self-Image & Self-Esteem: The Sacred Trio of Self-Knowledge

If you’ve ever wrestled with how you see yourself… how you feel about yourself… and how those inner conversations shape your mental well-being, you’re not alone. ...more

Adult Mental Health ,Child and Adolescents Mental Health

January 05, 20263 min read

Self-Concept, Self-Image & Self-Esteem: The Sacred Trio of Self-Knowledge

When Success Hurts: How Trauma Hides Behind Overachievement and Insomnia in Bicultural High-Performers

You’re successful. So why can’t you sleep?⠀⠀ If you grew up between cultures, you probably learned to adapt. To perform. To outwork fear.⠀ But that 3am restlessness? That “never enough” loop in your h... ...more

Adult Mental Health

October 31, 20254 min read

When Success Hurts: How Trauma Hides Behind Overachievement and Insomnia in Bicultural High-Performers

Migration Stress and the Immigrant Psyche

Migration isn’t just about paperwork and flights. It’s about the invisible grief that follows you, even after the bags are unpacked. You may have chosen to leave, but even chosen departures come with ... ...more

Adult Mental Health ,Child and Adolescents Mental Health

September 02, 20254 min read

Migration Stress and the Immigrant Psyche
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Meet the author

I’m Patria Alexander, PMHNP-BC

I’m an integrative psychiatric nurse practitioner who believes your mental health care should honor you, your story, your culture, your creativity, and the experiences that have shaped who you are. In our work together, we’ll move beyond symptoms to help you reconnect with your identity through narrative, ritual, and visual reflection, so your healing feels personal and lasting.

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